A strong man cannot help a weaker unless the weaker is willing to be helped, and even then the weak man must become strong of himself; he must, by his own efforts, develop the strength which he admires in another. None but himself can alter his condition.
对美好现实的渴求蒙蔽了对真实世界的认知。所谓痛苦，就是无法继续无视事实。
难点在于看清真相。要看清真相，就必须摆脱自我，因为自我不想面对真相。自我越弱小，对自己反应的限制越少，对自己想要的结果的执念越低，就越容易看清现实。 ...