Don’t give the sacred relic to pigs and dogs; it might trample it and then turn around and bite you
There is no need to tell them everything you know. People dislike having someone around them who knows more than they do; it makes them irritated. Even if what you say is correct, you cannot change these people. Unless they want to learn themselves, there is no way around it. You either keep quiet, or you speak their language.
The essence of “speaking their language” is “empathy” and “effective communication”:
- Lowering the cognitive barrier: Allowing the other person to easily understand what you are trying to convey.
- Building connection and trust: Showing that you are thinking from their perspective, respecting their cognitive background and feelings, which makes it easier for them to lower their guard.
- Increasing information acceptance: When information is presented in a way that is familiar, comfortable, and relevant to them, they are more likely to listen, and even start thinking.
- Promoting dialogue rather than confrontation: Creating a more open, less defensive communication atmosphere, which makes further exchange or influence possible.